Cindy Silva, born in 1960, is an American actress and philanthropist, best known for her marriage to actor and filmmaker Kevin Costner. While she led a private life away from the public eye for much of her marriage, Cindy briefly pursued acting and played a significant role in supporting Costner during his rise to fame.
Early Life and Education
Cindy Silva grew up in California. She attended California State University, Fullerton, where she met Kevin Costner. Both were students at the university, and their shared interests and connection quickly developed into a romantic relationship.
Marriage to Kevin Costner
Cindy and Kevin Costner married in 1978, shortly after graduating from college. At the time, Costner was just beginning his career, working various jobs and attending auditions, while Cindy supported the family financially and emotionally.
Cindy occasionally appeared in small acting roles, including portraying a Disneyland Snow White, a job she enjoyed because of her love for children and storytelling.
Family Life
Cindy and Kevin have three children together:
- Annie Costner (b. 1984) – A film producer and entrepreneur.
- Lily Costner (b. 1986) – A singer and performer.
- Joe Costner (b. 1988) – An actor and sound engineer.
Cindy was often credited with maintaining stability in the family while Kevin’s career skyrocketed during the late 1980s and early 1990s.
Divorce
In 1994, after 16 years of marriage, Cindy and Kevin Costner divorced. The split was reportedly amicable but followed intense scrutiny of Costner’s rising fame and the pressures of maintaining a high-profile marriage. The divorce settlement was one of the largest in Hollywood history at the time, with Cindy receiving a reported $80 million.
Life After Divorce
Following the divorce, Cindy Silva chose to live a quieter life focused on her children and philanthropic efforts. She has largely stayed out of the limelight, maintaining her privacy and avoiding the public scrutiny associated with her former husband’s fame.
Legacy
Cindy Silva is remembered as a significant influence in Kevin Costner’s early career, providing steadfast support during his rise to stardom. Her role as a mother and a partner during their marriage left a lasting impact on their family and the narrative of Costner’s success.
